We kept a baby alive for over half a year!

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12 months of Abbie / Abigail Elizabeth

6mos…six months and five days to be exact! …and I’m late to tell you about it. But there have been a couple things going on.. weddings to help out with and ceilings that needed retouching and mooooooving to attend to so, that’s a good excuse, right? Happy half birthday my sweet little one! You, my dear, have brought such joy to our lives. I seriously cannot figure out why we got so lucky to have a girl as dear as you. We love you little Abigail!

These monthly posts are getting awfully boring since every month it’s the same ol thing: PLEASE SLOW DOWN. PLEASE STOP MY HEART FROM ACHING BECAUSE YOU’RE GROWING AND IT’S BEAUTIFUL BUT IT MAKES YOUR MOMMA SO SAD IN A HAPPY SORT OF WAY. But seriously, this shiz is fun. This month she:

Started to coo. Like a dove. I think she has found her softer sweeter voice and she likes what she hears. I like it too, sweet thang. Also, she can say her D’s and it. is. justthecutest. Dah dah dah dah for days.

Became interested in toys! Now THAT is fun. You just plop her in front of a toy and she’ll sit there and talk and play with it for a good while. But also, the boredom is starting to kick in too… so there’s that… but that hasn’t stopped the same stacking toy from reappearing in front of her again and again. I’m a good mom, I am.

Speaking of… you can plop her in front of a toy! As in, she an sit up! All on her own! And the face planting is basically a thing of the past. Well, I should say the side flopping… now we are into launching and we like to launch a lot. It’s a different sort of face plant. She’s a tough one, I tell you. I may have googled “when to take baby to ER hit head” last night. But that shall be in her seven month update ;)

Ok let’s just keep talking about this sitting up business because it started early this month and she’s just been perfecting it henceforth. She can catch herself when she’s starting to lean… I KNOW! Like a freakin pro! She can reach for a toy, see that the original hand intended isn’t gunna cut it, put that hand down for support, and lean even further with the other hand extended. You guys, we cancelled our cable. This stuff is fascinating. She’s also fascinated by passing objects back and forth from hand to hand… and when she’s fascinated, I’m fascinated. Let’s see how many more times I can say fascinated.

She’s the most content little baby I’ve ever seen! She’s just you know, the best.

Still no teeth (hallelujah says the nursing mom) but the teething is definitely in full force. I mean, her clothes are starting to mold. The drool is outta control.

She loves whatever you are holding. She wants whatever you are holding. She will do whatever she can to get what you are holding. And she loves to gnaw on beer bottles. mmmm cold on my teeth. I mean, I’m assuming.

Loves swings. Duh, who doesn’t.

Loves jewelry or anything shiny. And purse straps. Her eyes literally light up around straps.

Ok, those hands. Oh my goodness. Now she is into twirling them and opening them and closing them and watching them and clasping them and they are just so beautiful. I just love those hands.

She’s become a distracted nurser but is still the best sleeper, loves her brother Bentley, thrives on attention and will always smile for her Papi. Overall, six month Abbie, you’ve been a dream. We love you!

HE GOT US A HOUSE!

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You can just go ahead and pick me up out of my puddle of happiness now because I seriously can’t believe it! HE GOT US A HOUSE!!! If you talk to Greg, he’ll correct that statement by saying He allowed us to buy a house but that is sooooo boring because HE GOT US A HOUSE! Even talking to our realtor, she said, it certainly seems like He moved heaven and earth for you guys to get this! hehehe Oh my goodness, oh my goodness! And what a fine house it is.

So here’s the story. I have wanted a house since I was mmmm probably about four? I would ride my bike around the neighborhood and pick out all the houses that needed some love, and then draw up what I would do to them. You think I’m kidding. I’m not. I’ve always been this weird. This has been my favorite thing to do basically since I came out of the womb. When all the other kids were watching cartoons and trendy shows, I was hooked on HGTV and had absolutely no one my age to relate to. I’d try to figure out how long it would take me to save my allowances, get overwhelmed and continue to drift away in my dream land where everything was possible. Once out of college, I’d sit in my car on my lunch breaks and try to figure out how long it would take me to save up for a place of my own. I think I calculated I would be 97 by the time I could actually afford the down payment for something here, so then I’d get overwhelmed and drift away to my happy place once again. I love houses. I’ve always loved houses. And I love to love on houses. Nothing makes me happier than fixing something up and making it loved and pretty again. Pasadena was SO ugly and gross but it was awfully satisfying to scrub the brown out of the sink and make it glistening white again.

Anyways, so we’ve been back in Santa Cruz for *gasp* nine. months. Oh. My. Goodness. It’s kind of comical that we thought we’d only live with my parents for a month or two. BUT as we watched the months tick away, it did allow us to save more than we would be able to anywhere else. We were able to be here for some really challenging family situations and hopefully be a comfort to my parents in that time. Sometimes I just do not understand His timing, but to look back and be reassured that He knew what He was doing, is such a source of faith strengthening for me. Once Greg got his job, we finally were able to get pre-approved again which meant we could start looking for a place to call our own! Talk about discouraging. There is nothing in Santa Cruz right now. Everyone kept warning us that inventory is low and the prices are rising. And it was, and they were. But that didn’t get me down! The jolly holiday inside of me kept saying I’ll take anything! and, we only need one! And that’s what we did. One of the first places we went to was a tiny little place just a couple blocks from the beach. And it was ugly. But to me it was a world of possibilities and although I had nightmares about it closing in around me since it was only 900 sq ft and smashed between two gargantuan residences, I reminded myself it was only blocks from the beach and we could just cure our claustrophobia by spending all of our time there! But… lemme just show you ;)IMG_5951 IMG_5952

We looked at a giant condo that I was sure Greg would love – it was a great location and was new (he likes new, I like ooooold) and I was totally willing to compromise just so we could get into something, but to my surprise, he didn’t fall for it. Do you know how hard it is to walk away from something when there is a very good chance there will not be anything else for a while!? Very. It is very hard.

But I remembered back to when I was crying in my chair, completely out of patience and so ready to give up, and He whispered to me… don’t you worry Hilly. I’m gunna get you something. So when God whispers something to you, you have to listen! Because there are plenty of other thoughts that will say there is no way He said that to you, there is obviously nothing out there.. and then the discouragement comes yadda yadda yadda. SO since this was the only hope I had, I was going to cling to it with all my everything… And when my husband says to walk away from the perfectly good condo, we will walk… in faith, trusting He would provide and bring us together in agreement on such a monumental decision. Well, that night I reminded him of the little beach house that I loved so much that he HATED (please refer to picture above), and said please please please can we put an offer on it?? They could always reject it! That happens all the time! And considering every house we have looked at has had at least five cash offers on them, the chance of us getting anything is so unbelievably slim! And after much pleading, we decided with much heavy sighing and worried looks on his part, to put in an offer in the morning.

That morning, all these issues came up with the loan type we were going after plus issues with the house, sellers, basically everything. It didn’t look like it was going to work for us so Greg and Debi put their heads together and after much talking and trying to figure out all the options possible, came up with a new plan. And this is where things get fuzzy because I have no idea how any of this miraculous business happened. Our realtor (Debi) sent us a house to go look at which I just laughed at because it was so adorably gorgeous and there was just no way. But HEY we like to look at houses we can’t afford – it appears to be a hobby of ours ;) so we went to check it out. You guys. I have NEVER seen so many people in an open house before. It was flooded! I went in and just wanted to cry. It was so perfect and so old and so US! Many many months ago I prayed, Dear Jesus if there is one thing I could request in a house and if not it’s totally okay because I’ll take anything but if there is one thing, can you just let it have pretty windows? Oh my goodness were these windows pretty! They are HUGE and let in LOADS of light and they are old and beautiful and have the most glorious hardware. Greg can’t see it and thinks the hardware looks cheap and flimsy but NO! It’s GORGEOUS! So anyways, I didn’t even look around all the house because I was so overwhelmed with why our realtor would even show this to us when we clearly could not afford it. It seemed so impossibly out of reach but at the same time I had this weird unexplainable peace.

As this one guy stood in the corner and talked about how he’d like to knock down all the walls and open it up, my little heart was saying no no no! It’s so beautiful and charming and the history! They say it was built in 1886 but the previous owner thinks it might be older. We have the pictures of the family that lived there back then and the farm that surrounded it and ahhhh! It’s just so cool! It has so much character, it brings the squeals right out of me! Anyways, we left and Greg was like, what did you think?! and I just laughed at him. There were no words. I told him this was my Netflix of houses – something so perfect but totally unattainable without the help of our great God who apparently is still in the business of doing some pretty awesome miracles. He got Greg his dream job and I just knew if this wasn’t the house for us, there would be another one. So we put it in His hands and tried our best to not worry about an outcome that was so impossible anyways ;) But there were so MANY little things that said and this is for you… and this is for you…. like, the windows.. like, how when you looked out of the window upstairs, all you could see were trees – that’s the thing I loved most about my parents house and have wished since I was a little girl that I could find a property that had a similar view… the layout was my ideal… the backyard was HUGE… and did I mention it even had a detached artists studio!? AND IT’S MORE THAN 900 sq ft! AND IT HAS ROOM TO GROW AND AND AND. Anyways, I’ll spare you the whole drawn out process of how we actually came to put in an offer but we did! We submitted our little story with picture included and a couple days later, received word that we got it… WHAAAAT!? They had a full cash offer and our wayyy under listing price offer…. and they picked ours!? And not only that, they didn’t even wait another week for more offers to come in! That is unheard of in this market! Then there was the whole coming up with the funds bit that haha we had to use some shall we say, God math, because seriously, I have no idea how that happened. Seriously. No idea.

It came on the market the day Greg started his job. It has His fingerprints all over it. I cannot believe it’s ours. So let’s hold on to that happiness because today we went to get it ready to get tented and it hit us how much work it needs. hehehe… we both left just a touch overwhelmed but come three days from now, I’m rolling up my sleeves and diving headfirst into projects projects projects. I can’t sleep at night I’m so excited!!! To Him be the glory because seriously, wow.

Monday Happies

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Some things that make me happy as of lately:

THIS GIRL ON A SWING!IMG_5468
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And the kicking legs and squeeling noises of pure happiness that went with that face. Ohmygoodness I’m still smiling from that little experience. I never even thought she would like such a thing yet but we were waiting for my friend to show up at the park and I thought, well we might as well try it and she just lit up like the freakin fourth of July! Now all I can think is mustfindswings mustfindswings. 

THIS VIDEO that Greg took


Sometimes I sneak on Greg’s phone and check out his videos, and basically I can’t stop watching this one and that little lip. Oh. my. sweetness.

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I never thought I’d see the day. …and about that new camera…

THAT BED HEAD
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She wins everytime.

SPONTANEOUS TRIPS WITH MY HUSBAND that include pink colored wine and meats and delicious foods not pictured and a little lady that can sit so well in a high chair like the biggest of girls. IMG_5551 (1)
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This classy trip was spurred on by the dreamy desire to spend more money in this broke portion of our life and check out some luxurious SUV’s that we can’t afford, just to dream and think about life where hitting your head on the roof of your sedan wasn’t a daily occurrence. Right before entering this swanky dealership, Abbie unloaded the deposit of the century that somehow went absolutely everywhere and left her with no pants and us, smelling faintly of well, you know… that sweet sweet smell. Classy, I know. This mom was obviously not prepared, clinging to the delusion that she will get through parenting with no such circumstances happening to her. So off they go to look at the luxury automobiles, mustering up all the elegance within them with their pants-less baby and yellow stained shirts, hop into the first car and hear gonk as the door blew open and ever so classily hit the car next to them. Seriously, I don’t know what’s wrong with me… no matter how hard I try, the chances of causing some sort of scene are 100%. Later, we were going to quickly slip into a baby store to see if they still had this dress I loved, and what do I do? That’s right, I get caught in the small swinging child door and find myself falling through the entrance. My coolness factor is basically unmatched. But still, such a fun day :)

THIS HATthat hat

because I seriously can not get enough of it.

AND LAST BUT NOT LEAST…. this.
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Oh. My. Gosh. I can’t. even. *happy tears*

Happy Birthday Blog!

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^^oh back when we were just babies <3

Happy 2nd birthday little blog of mine! It’s such a silly thing to celebrate but I’ve been so glad I have had something to look back on and I’m really so humbled you guys have followed along! Thank you! It’s been awesome to follow along on your journey of those of you who were pregnant at the same time and to see your babies blossom and grow. Just last year we were a mere 12 weeks pregnant with no idea what we were going to do about anything. It’s so funny to look back on a time (that I so clearly remember complaining about, often) with such sweetness and to see all the things I was so worried about, being provided for. It’s nice to have all those growing baby pictures to compare to and think, is this new little pooch I’ve been sporting… a little sibling!? and then have to come to the reality that that is just my stomach now. ;) Literally everything last year was up in the air – Greg’s job, housing, cars, doctors, etc – and every single thing, we have seen Him help us with. I can’t tell you how many times I had to reread this blog just to remember everything was going to be okay. OK, I know that’s technically a different blog but it basically goes hand in hand with this one ;) I try to keep this one light and dump all my heaviness onto that one hehe but still. I am a very blessed woman and we serve a very faithful God and that is something to celebrate. Thanks again for following along with our little life! We love you guys!

As is our custom (well, as of last year ;) ) here are:

50 Things You May Not Know About The Nettles

1) she grew up in California
2) he did not
3) she is very glad about this
4) he is very particular about which mug he drinks his coffee out of
5) so is she
6) it’s taken them this long to find one that matched
7) matching mugs make her quite happy
8) they live with her parents. it’s not as sad as it sounds.
9) they had their baby at her parents house. when people find this out, they normally respond with, “on purpose?”
10) their child is exceptionally advanced and gifted. yup.
11) her goal in life is to get him to laugh every day
12) he’ll never know how happy she is when she succeeds
13) he has bet her she’ll never beat him at ping pong
14) she is determined to prove him wrong
15) they both talk about being more active. usually while sitting and eating.
16) her favorite place to be is next to him
17) he is ridiculously patient with her. like, ridiculously patient.
18) she likes to dance for Little
19) simply because the look of what in tarnation has already started and it’s basically priceless
20) his slippers have a magical way of escaping from the closet even when he’s not around! HOW!?
21) to say she’s obsessed with white would be an understatement
22) sometimes he takes her to say hi to their stuff in storage because she misses it so
23) she opens up like a frinkin flower around the ocean
24) he does not. sand. they are working through it.
25) she loves to daydream about their one day house
26) he is aware he will never have pocket change again ;)
27) she is convinced she can build anything
28) he is slowly convincing her otherwise
29) he likes to make the dog (oh and the baby) play air drums
30) this never ceases to amuse her
31) they get abnormally attached to characters on tv series
32) they go through some serious depressions when said series end
33) he always buys her popcorn and a cherry coke at the movies
34) she feels spoiled rotten every time
35) they love a good cocktail
36) Little reserves the best smiles for morning and for Papi.
37) she also gives the best laughs when she is: turned upside down, tossed violently in the air, or being bitten on her thighs. they are great parents.
38) they are rather proud they can still take her to the movies. they love the movies.
39) they love experiences over things
40) who are we kidding, they love things too
41) she could never kill a plant on purpose. she talks to them. she’s weird.
42) she loves when he plays his guitar
43) he loves when she sings
44) they rarely do either
45) they are amazed every time Little learns something new right before their eyes. they talk about it for days afterward.
46) they are still pretty obsessed with their dog
47) they love people who love dogs. especially people who love their dog ;)
48) she wanted to have all her kids 9 months apart…. that was before the labor experience
49) also before she knew breastfeeding made that very unlikely
50) Little is the joy of their lives

Life lately, according to my iPhone

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Oh hey there pretty lady.. let’s run through what we’ve been up to lately because, you know, the memory thing and the fact that life has gotten way too busy to possibly keep up with! So here we go. iPhone, don’t fail me now!
1^^This lady grew out of her clothes for the final time, I’m sure. Insert continuous weeping forevermore. But that hat. It fits more like a yamaka now but doesn’t make me smile any less! ^^Greg and I did some marvelous coping with life’s sadnesses. ^^We were just settling in for our morning nursefest when that dog came and curled up real good and rested that dear head on my leg. This, this is my happy place.
^^We celebrated national donut day the day after national donut day. The milk was the biggest attraction. We now have a grabbing girl.
^^There was a beach day which I always have to mention because they are my favorite. Greg, however was in a living nightmare. We’ve been debating getting Bentley a buddy, so we tried it out with two dogs. There will be no more debate over one or two dogs.
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^^Just a taste of this girl in the morning. She’s the best. As soon as she sees you, she lights up and starts kicking those legs. Can’t get enough of that business.

^^Abbie and my latest adventure. We apparently paint ceilings now. Can we just take a moment to stand in awe of this glorious house?! It may have been the prettiest house I’ve ever seen and I have seen some pretty stunning contenders. These pictures do NOT do it justice so use your imaginations because it is out of this world gorgeous. Anyways, painting a ceiling. Does that sound fun to you? Ya, me neither. However, Greg said if I did it, I could get my camera. Also, the small life event of buying a house and needing every extra cent we can possibly muster up… At the time, “coloring in a stencil” as they described it, sounded easy. And fast. Two weeks later… Ya, you try staring at a ceiling for two weeks, 6 hours a day and tell me how your neck feels. Mine starting doing a clicking sound followed by a spasm every time I turned it. Add 100 degree weather and a whining, screaming child to the mix for a good 4 hours of that day and in reality there was more danger of her getting thrown off the scaffolds than rolling off. I think the workers just kept hearing shut up SHUT UP! coming from the back room. We are friends again. Worth it? No. Actually I’ll tell you once I see how much I like my camera :)IMG_5121
^^But she would give me the best snuggles when we got home :) That was worth it.
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^^we celebrated having our house appraise high enough! Greg asked if we were going to celebrate every stage of the approval process. What a silly question.


^^we were there a lot, okay?  And really, how often do you see a baby on the scaffolds? ^^and from possibly the most flattering angle imaginable.. the tiny brush at work. I can’t even tell you how many Michelangelo or “Michelleangela” jokes I heard. Smile and nod. Smile and nod.

^^We celebrated this lovely lady’s birthday!

^^it was really fun! We tried to think of all the things she loved and include them in her day – special drinks WITH sharks, fried chicken, theological discussions, Jewish music.. these sorts of things. I’m pretty sure she thought we were making fun of her but we all really had a good time! She’s a pretty special lady :)
^^There were lots of dinners with my dad :) ^^and somehow she became a little lady somewhere in there.. my goodness!
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^^there was a family day date with the unfortunate choice of a milkshake that was sooooo good going down in those three minutes it took me to devour it, but made me feel new levels of sick for the rest of that day ;) and a movie! You guys. Inside out. So good. Gotta say, I was not particularly looking forward to it but Greg and I turned into a proper basket case in there. Can I still blame just-had-a-baby-five-months-ago hormones? I don’t know what Greg’s excuse was. You’re on your own, buddy. IMG_514412
^^And she swam! And liked it! The next day, not so much but hey! we’ll take what we can get.

And finally, Father’s Day. This guy’s first! So thankful I get to do life with him. He’s well, he’s just the best! IMG_5149
Happy Monday to you all!

Happy Father’s Day

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dadsDads. What a huge roll you play. I may be wrong, but I notice a whole lot of mother celebration, and rightfully so – that shiz hurt! but dads often seem to be an afterthought. Or an, oh ya, he had a part in this too. But man, if there is one thing I’ve noticed lately, it’s that the dad’s roll is most definitely equal if not more important in raising a kiddo. So happy father’s day, you guys. I cannot express how unbelievably blessed I feel to have had such an incredible family unit growing up and how much it hurts me that so many kids aren’t able to have that experience. I am so proud you are my dad, Dad, and I am so thankful my little girl has such an incredible man protecting and loving on her the rest of her life, Bubba. We are some lucky ladies over here! Happy Father’s Day! We love you guys!

By jove she’s five months

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12 months of Abbie / Abigail Elizabeth

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I know, Sweetie. I feel the same way too.
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I mean, just look at these poses she’s coming up with! Reaching hand. Over the shoulder I-got-this glance. Psh. Just, psh. Ok ya, I’m a little proud of this child of ours. My poor Instagram followers didn’t know what they were going to be bombarded with when they pushed follow. It went from an occasional picture of a flower or a delightful drink to LOOKIT I HAVE A CHILD AND HERE’S HER FACE FROM THIS ANGLE AND FROM THIS ANGLE AND! Heheh I don’t care. The amount of times my computer has crashed and I’ve lost all my pictures is appalling so pardon me while I excessively overshare ;) ANYWAYS five months. That’s almost half a year people. My goodness where has time gone. Life’s been so weird and busy lately, I’ve barely had any time to sit down and take in all that’s been happening! My family has been going through some how do you say… crap. But amidst all that mess, there’s been some awesome stuff too! Exhibit A: We are still in escrow! YAY! hehe… We just got news today that it appraised high enough so we can keep moving forward! I’ve been so worried about that step in particular and am just shocked at how He’s been providing for us. Absolutely shocked. Like I need to sit down and breathe into a bag for a couple minutes.

So while I do that, lemme think back on this last month of Abbie goodness:

The hands. They have some new skills and they are not afraid to find their way into your nose. Or mouth. Or any sort of crevice. And they are open and my my my she has some long beautiful fingers. I’m kind of hoping my sister will offer her piano lessons for life any day now. Just kidding… They also are interested in reaching for whatever you are holding and will attempt to grab it with the utmost concentration plastered across that gorgeous face of hers. When excited, she will flap. Those arms, they get flailing. The feet too. And she’s got some strength behind those limbs! She’s a force to be reckoned with, she is.

She’s the longest baby I’ve ever seen! People think she’s nine months. Dresses have turned into shirts. She wears pants up to 18 months. It’s ridiculous. These are our challenges. We are coping. But the squish in those thighs. My goodness is it good. She is a well nourished baby ;) I’m a little proud of my milking powers.

Grunts for days. I’m looking forward to using our words.

She’s a tricky one, this one. I spend my days trying to get her to laugh because, well, there’s just nothing better, now is there. And she laughs. But never at the same thing. She makes you work for that shiz. Except in the morning. She’s still the happiest little creature in the morning and just tosses out those big smiley eye smiles like confetti. But lately…. we’ve had serious morning girl…. and I can’t… even…. express how sad I will be when smiley morning Abbie goes away… can’t.. even… let’s move on.

SHE CAN ROLL OVER!!! There was one week when she had this skill mastered. Full on roll and wait for it, yup, she whipped that arm right out from under the entire weight of her body like a champ. She seems to have forgotten this action was once a breeze but don’t you dare help her with that last little arm trickery. She’s my daughter and does NOT want help unless she asks for it. Ok, little girl, you just grunt away down there.

She LOVES Bentley. Ohmygoshohmygoshohmygosh. I’m not happy about this at all. And cue the mom tears because THIS IS THE BEST DAY OF MY LIFE. He’ll stand there, whipping her face with his tail and she’ll be laughing her head off. She thinks it’s hilarious when he barks (and boy can he bark… LOUD) and will always reach her little fingers out to receive that nice tongue bath. Mmmmhmm. I can’t even type the happiness this little budding relationship brings me. My heart is full. :):)

She seems to be favoring her right hand, seeeeeems to know her name (and yes I know they say she won’t know till past a year but she’s brilliant, ok), tries so hard to sit up from a lying position (them neck mussels be workin real hard) and can prop herself up when posed in a seated position… until she falls the other way. But she’s a tough one. She’s been bonked many a time and just looks up at me with these what? is that the best you got? eyes. She’s a little trooper which is awesome cause she’s got a pretty clumsy mom. She’s is seriously the sweetest, most mellow child I’ve ever encountered and I love her to bits. Happy five months little girl! You are one special gift!

Someone Came To Visit Us!

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…six months ago! Just kidding… I’m not that far behind.. yet. Life does go a bit crazy and continues to zoom on by now doesn’t it? Greg’s sister and brother-in-law, I mean MY sister and brother-in-law came to visit us last week and might I say, I am so glad I married a guy whose family members enjoy the delights we call meals as much as I do. Those two… they spoiled our tastebuds rotten, my lips are still smacking. There was wine-ing, there was dining. There was a little girl who appeared to be crushing hard on the dapper Italian man. There were cook offs and laughs and most of all, a whole lot of trying to convince them that Santa Cruz is the place to move and live ;)   IMG_4048
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^^and I mean, not to brag but, I mean, just look ;) She’s so good at restaurants and I am obviously obnoxiously proud. Until right before we were getting ready to leave, I heard the loudest wail and naturally thought, whose baby is THAT!? and then remembered it was mine that I stashed under the table an hour before. Parent points for me..^^IMG_4051

The next day, we took them to see the big trees. You know, there is only so much we can do here in this little town ;) I always forget how big they are. And how much my neck hurts after such viewing. IMG_4054

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^^Seriously, the hearts. ^^

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And then we ate again. And this girl deepened her affection for the one that blows her kisses.
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And then we came home to celebrate because we may have put an offer on a house a while back and it may have, by some miracle, gotten accepted and we may actually be in escrow WHAAAT!? And since our secret apparently made it around to everyone we know already, I might as well make a note about it on here… welcome to my family, Greg. You get to tell one person and the rest is history. Ah well… the chances of any of this actually happening is beyond slim but by some act of God, things keep moving forward! If I stop to think about it, all that comes to mind is what in the world!? It’s so surreal it’s hard to be excited. Anyways, we shall see what He has in mind and try to keep the stress levels in the normal zones until then :) That is proving to be difficult.
IMG_4073But anyways, back to more important matters. Food. Spartico cooked us the most epic Italian meal. Seriously, I am fully Pavlov’s dogs just thinking about it. IMG_4064 copyIMG_4071IMG_4067

And then the next night my mom and dad did their cooking magic and made this deliciousness and pork chops over the fire. I really can’t complain. IMG_4075
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So that’s that. Now we are up to our ears in paperwork and doing our math over and over and over again. And this is where I repeat once more, God is good. He will provide. :) Thanks for coming to see us Domi and Spartico! We absolutely loved having you and can’t wait for next time! Love, us

He has a pretty good sister-in-law

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family days

Weekend, weekend, why are you so short? I really feel like the world would generally be a better place if we worked four days and had three day weekends every week. The people would be so much happier.. we’d probably be lookin at world peace. Just sayin. Here is how we spent our weekend: IMG_3102

It’s my favorite. But also, for Greg’s birthday, all he asked for (HA… all…) from Taylor, was a home cooked meal (she’s rather exceptional) and this weekend she delivered. And the best part of this tricky scheme was that we all got to enjoy it! And it. was. AMAZING.
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^^and this is how you know he is enjoying his food^^

And now I would like you all to tell my husband how much better these pictures would be if they were not taken with a phone but with a new (and not dropped) camera :):):) I’ve been having major camera envy the last couple of months (well probably about 13 to be exact ;) ) and he said the camera in my new phone would be better but it’s not …but I’m still thankful! and not complaining! because let’s just remember the images camera phones used to produce… ya…. we’ve come a long way… but back to the matter at hand… spending a small fortune on a lovely new camera would be money well spent, right? I mean, it’s not like we are saving for a house or anything right now… heheh we went and looked at some houses this weekend… the search has been… intriguing :) maybe more on that later. Maybe not ;) And if you were wondering, that girl is still the most precious of littles! And if you were also wondering, that dog is still real good. Actually he’s the worst. I love him so. But here’s the full video of that girl laughing because I can’t stop watching it and if I ever lose all my pictures again, which, let’s face it, will probably happen again in my lifetime, I have to know I can find it somewhere :) Happy Monday!

A Dedication

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Abigail Elizabeth

abbie“Children are a gift from the Lord; they are a reward from Him.” –Psalm 127:3

Boy do I ever get that now! And this is after being unloaded on with that sweet sweet smell of regurgitated sour milk all on my face and in my hair, cause holding her over my head brings the biggest smiles. I’ve tried to wash it out, but the smell magically lingers. And I will continue to chance it every time, knowing it can and probably will happen again, because her smile melts me. She’s started this new thing when she nurses, where she pulls off abruptly (which, might I say, is not the most comfortable feeling in the world) but then gives me the biggest gummy smile with moon eyes included. Ahhhhh! Kids man. They make life better than I could have ever imagined. Every time I hear that someone has lost their child, or even can’t have children… I can’t even describe the heartbreak I feel for them. Sometimes I get the scary feeling that we’ll lose her and my mind kinda shuts off. As if it can’t even handle that kind of sorrow. But the wonderful thing is, we have a great God. And although there is so much in life that I don’t understand, I know He is good and in that, I can rest. So this weekend, we dedicated this precious little girl to Him, knowing He has each one of her days carefully numbered and each one is a special gift. What an honor to get to be her momma and help her become the little lady He designed her to be.

IMG_2904I spent all morning making sure she wasn’t going to be channeling her inner Dwight again but something happened on the way from the pew to the stage and well, there you have it. Center part. Oh well ;) She still got some awws from the audience. Most of all, it meant so much to see my family taking up a whole long aisle, in support of this little girl. To have so many people in her life that love and care about her is the best gift I could ask for.

Naturally, we threw a little party.IMG_2891

All I wanted for Mother’s Day were some pink peonies, so to ensure I wouldn’t be disappointed, I made them her decorations.. heheheh. All of my favorite flowers, just for me! I shouldn’t have! ;) When my sister was little, she dressed up as a princess for Halloween. A lady answered the door and asked her, and which princess are you? And she answered, I’m the princess of the Lord! So, obviously a princess cake had to be part of such a party :) IMG_2901
Greg gave her the sweetest blessing. I love hearing that guy talk about his little girl. I just love it! And there was much feasting of casseroles that never set up, champagne cause well, it’s us, and holding of the one who will probably never know how loved she truly is :) IMG_2896 copyIMG_2892IMG_2900abbie-2
We love you Abigail Elizabeth! You are such a gift.